A proven plan for overcoming the painful end of any romantic relationship, including divorce, with practical strategies for healing, getting your confidence back, and finding true love It's over--and it really hurts. But as unbelievable as it may seem when you are in the throes of heartache, you can move past your breakup. Forget about trying to win your ex back. Forget about losing yourself and trying to make this person love you. Starting today, this breakup is the best time to change your life for the better, inside and out. Through her workshops and popular blog, Susan Elliott has helped thousands of people transform their love lives. Now in Getting Past Your Breakup, she'll help you put your energy back where it belongs--on you. Her plan includes:The rules of disengagement: how and why to go "no contact" with your exHow to work through grief, move past fear, and take back your lifeThe secret to breaking the pattern of failed relationshipsWhat to do when you can't stop thinking about your ex, texting, calling, checking social networking sites, or driving by the house Read more

Incorporate a new rhythm for those days when life feels too hard through the daily practice of receiving and releasing—receiving God's encouragement, instruction, and truth to start your day and releasing to God all that's weighing you down at the end of each day. He'll set you on a path toward healing.In her newest devotional, New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst helps you stay connected to God and continue loving others even in the middle of discouraging, disappointing, or even devastating circumstances. Experience 50 days of morning and evening devotions complimented with beautiful color photography of significant locations where Lysa has worked through her own healing. Each devotion contains:a Bible verse to start your daya statement of truth to remember throughout your dayspace to write and release something back to God at the end of your daya prayer to receive before you go to sleep to better prepare for tomorrowWithout these crucial components woven into the routine of our harder seasons, connecting with the Lord can very quickly begin to feel overwhelming and like just another item on our to-do lists. Lysa understands this struggle and wants to create a sacred space where women can bookend their days with God by simply showing up, soaking in truth, and being reminded they're not alone on their healing journey.In her gentle, unassuming way, Lysa walks you through the pages of You're Going to Make It, where you will:receive the biblical truth and encouragement you need when hurtful situations leave you worn out and unmotivated to spend time with God.escape the loneliness of trying to heal on your own with trusted wisdom from a Bible teacher and friend who understands your pain and wants to help you move forward.be reassured that though this difficult season is part of your story, it will not be your whole story.This difficult season doesn't have to be a time of numbing the pain or going through the motions. Let this devotional help you get intentional and know that, though this may be a hard time, it can also be a holy time. Read more

New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst unveils her heart amid shattering circumstances and shows readers how to live assured when life doesn't turn out like they expected.What do you do when God’s timing seems questionable, His lack of intervention hurtful, and His promises doubtful?Life often looks so very different than we hoped or expected. Some events may simply catch us off guard for a moment, but others shatter us completely. We feel disappointed and disillusioned, and we quietly start to wonder about the reality of God’s goodness.Lysa TerKeurst understands this deeply. But she's also discovered that our disappointments can be the divine appointments our souls need to radically encounter God. In It's Not Supposed to Be This Way, Lysa invites us into her own journey of faith and, with grit, vulnerability, and honest humor, helps us to:Stop being pulled into the anxiety of disappointment by discovering how to better process unmet expectations and other painful situations.Train ourselves to recognize the three strategies of the enemy so we can stand strong and persevere through unsettling relationships and uncertain outcomes.Discover the secret of being steadfast and not panicking when God actually does give us more than we can handle.Shift our suspicion that God is cruel or unfair to the biblical assurance that God is protecting and preparing us.Know how to encourage a friend and help her navigate hard realities with real help from God's truth. Read more

On the evening of April 19, 2013, Samantha and Gianna Rucki disappeared. Two of five children born to David Rucki and Sandra Grazzini-Rucki, the teenage sisters vanished in the midst of their parents’ divorce. The girls’ father, David Rucki, worked tirelessly with law enforcement to search day and night for his two missing daughters, following every lead while raising three remaining children at home. Their mother, Sandra Grazzini-Rucki, used her newfound freedom to vacation around the world, abandoning her children. And as the investigation intensified, catching the attention of the media, Sandra also disappeared. The Girls Are Gone is the true story of two sisters who went missing, the father who kept searching, and the adults who conspired to keep the truth hidden. Read more

Tere Díaz y Manuel Turrent nos trazan el camino para decidir sicontinuar o terminar una relación de pareja"No se puede dejar una relación de pareja por cualquier cosa, pero tampoco puede sostenerse a pesar de todo."¿Será que la hacemos juntos? Lo que me cansa y me preocupa de mi relación, ¿mejorará o empeorará con el tiempo? ¿Y si mejoran las cosas y yo me precipito a romper? Pero ¿qué pasará si empeora esta situación? Si terminamos, ¿mi futuro será mejor o peor de lo que estoy viviendo? Si continúo con mi pareja, ¿podré lograr más bienestar y satisfacción? En ocasiones, muchas de estas preguntas crean en nuestra mente un ciclo de indecisión repleto de dudas y desazón. Por eso, ¿Me quedo o me voy? nos traza un camino que podemos seguir para confirmar lo que deseamos y necesitamos de nosotros y de nuestra pareja.Desde su profesionalismo como terapeutas de pareja y familia, Tere Díaz Sendra y Manuel Turrent Riquelme nos ofrecen reflexiones precisas para tomar de manera consciente la decisión sobre el futuro de nuestra relación, con miras a una vida que aporte mayor congruencia, crecimiento y bienestar.Lo que ha dicho la crítica:"Existen dos opciones en la vida: aceptar las condiciones tal y como existen o aceptar la responsabilidad de cambiarlas." (Denis Waitley)Please note: This audiobook is in Spanish. Read more

Letting go is not a process that comes naturally to us. In a world that teaches us to cling to what we love at all costs, there is an undeniable art to moving on—and it’s one that we are constantly relearning.In this series of honest and poignant essays, Heidi Priebe explores the harsh reality of what it means to let go of the people and situations we love most—often before we are ready to—and how to embrace what comes next. Read more

You picked up this book because your breakup has been reduced to something that you feel you must “win” to emotionally survive and move on.This reduction can only take place if you were involved with a toxic person. Toxic people are selfish, empathetically bankrupt, and have a limited relationship with reality. Anyone who feels validated by exploiting your hunger for theirs is toxic - to your peace, your life, and your mental health.Breakups aren’t won by game-playing or vilifying your ex. They’re won by realizing that winning is losing a partner who has proven to be a dead end.A new life is waiting for you at the end of this journey. In Win Your Breakup, relationship and self-help coach Natasha Adamo presents the opportunity for a life with relationships that you don’t have to tolerate and eggshell-walk your way through. It’s a life in which your ex regrets the day they ever decided to breach your trust and break your heart; a life in which those who took you for granted wish you could find a way back into theirs. In this life, you can choose to walk away from toxicity - no more trying to be the person someone may want, may commit to, may be honest with, and may treat with respect.This life is about to be your own. Read more

In this pertinent audiobook, hard-hitting divorce lawyer James Sexton shares his insights and wisdom from the frontlines of divorce to keep you out of his office and improve on your relationshipIf You're In My Office, It's Already Too Late. James Sexton knows this. After dealing with over 1000 clients whose marriages have dissolved over everything from an ill-advised threesome with the nanny to the uneven division of carpool duties, he also knows all of the what-not-to-dos for couples who want to build - and consistently work to preserve - a lasting, fulfilling relationship.Described by former clients as a "courtroom gunslinger" and "the sociopath you want on your side", Sexton tells the unvarnished truth about relationships, diving straight into the most common marital problems. These usually derive from dishonest - or nonexistent - communication. Even when the alleged reason for separation is one spouse's new "personal trainer", there's usually a communication problem that predates the fitness kick. Symptom and root cause get confused all the time.Sexton has spent his career working with spouses-to-be-no-longer. Reverse-engineering a relationship can help to identify and fix what does not work. Ever feel like you're holding back criticism of your spouse because you just can't have that fight right now? Sexton will tell you to "Hit Send Now". Maybe you aren't as adventurous as you used to be, or need some you-time, but for some reason, it seems weird or exhausting to change up the routine now.Sexton knows where that mentality leads and offers viable alternative paths to take. Though he deals constantly with the heartbreak of others, he still believes in romance and the transformative power of love. This audiobook is his opportunity to use what he has learned to help couples that aren't so far gone get back on track. Read more

Do you feel like you are talking and talking, and your partner is never listening? Do you feel like you keep saying the same thing over and over again? Does your partner make promises, only to break or betray your trust repeatedly? Is your partner controlling or just plain mean? Have you read every relationship book out there, practiced your communication skills, and still feel unheard or neglected? Are you done with second chances? Should you stay or should you go? We live in a world of romance and rescue - where everyone believes love will conquer all, and the more we put up with, the more loving we are being. It doesn't work that way. Sometimes we choose mean people, and before long we are in so deep, we don't know whether we are coming or going. One day you want to fight harder, and the next day you are ready to pack it in, and the next day you want to fight harder. Should I Stay or Should I Go? is a survival manual, a guidebook, and a shot of reality. Some people will never change, and kissing frogs is the stuff of fairy tales, not real life. The Beast never turns out to be a nice guy (or gal). This is a book that breaks down what mean people do to us, how they do it, and what we can do to survive. Read more

Relationships are wonderful . . . until they're not.Stop the dysfunction of unhealthy relationships and learn biblical ways to set boundaries--and, when necessary, say goodbye.Is it unloving or selfish to set a boundary with family members or friends? Are Christians ever called to walk away from a relationship that’s no longer safe or sustainable? #1 New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst deeply understands these hard questions in the midst of relational struggles.After thousands of hours of counseling intensives and extensive theological research that transformed the way she defined healthy relationships, Lysa is now more committed than ever to loving people well without losing the best of who she is.In these pages, Lysa will help you:Understand the five factors to remember when implementing healthy boundaries.Determine the appropriate amount of personal and emotional access someone has to you.Stop being misled and emotionally paralyzed by wrongly interpreted or weaponized Bible verses that perpetuate unhealthy relationships.Be equipped with effective boundary-setting tools, such as realistic scripts and practical strategies for healthier communication.Be empowered to say goodbye without guilt when a relationship has shifted from difficult to destructive.Receive therapeutic wisdom you can trust directly from Lysa’s Christian counselor Jim Cress, who weighs in throughout the book.You'll be relieved to learn that boundaries aren't just a good idea, they're a God idea.Look for additional biblically based resources and devotionals from Lysa: Forgiving What You Can't ForgetIt's Not Supposed to Be This WayUninvitedYou're Going to Make ItEmbracedSeeing Beautiful Again Read more

Like Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross' groundbreaking On Death and Dying, Susan Anderson's book clearly defines the five phases of a different kind of grieving - grieving over a lost relationship. An experienced professional who has specialized in helping people with loss, heartbreak, and abandonment for more than two decades, Anderson gives this subject the serious attention it deserves. The Journey from Abandonment to Healing is designed to help all victims of emotional breakups - whether they are suffering from a recent loss or a lingering wound from the past; whether they are caught up in patterns that sabotage their own relationships or they are in a relationship where they no longer feel loved. From the first stunning blow to starting over, this book provides a complete program for abandonment recovery. Read more

Disrupting Divorce: Saving Struggling, Sexless and Toxic Marriages. In "Disrupting Divorce," Cass Morrow delivers a raw and rapid guide to transforming your marriage. Stop trying to save your marriage and create a new life, so valuable, your partner would be crazy to leave you. What started as a way to save his own marriage from the depths of Hell, became the proven RESET framework, helping nearly 4000 men in 3 years. After years of emotional, physical and sexual abuse towards his wife, seven separations, two divorce lawyers, and a restraining order, Cass and Kathryn are currently in 102 countries proving race, culture, location, age and faith are irrelevant. The world needs the new marriage. Cass helps men step into their roles as new men with his book. A rewarding blessing he never could have anticipated - the “Thank you’s” from women who finally understand their husband after reading Disrupting Divorce. Knowledge is power. What You'll Discover: The Peace Pillar: masculinity vs femininity, safety, trust and conversion, not communication. Create the life you want by responding, not reacting, using Cass’ STAT response. Build emotional connections from even the hardest conversations using Kathryn’s sought after Half Rap. The Partnership Pillar: partnership, leadership and lifting each other with each of your strengths. Breed connection and destroy the past: negativity, insecurity, anxiety and fear. No longer in fear of loneliness or the next fight, as you climb Cass’ Rejection Ladder. Instead, structure the direction of the new marriage. The Passion Pillar: Reignite passion in your marriage and your life. The Lover, Player and the Magnet, build a connection so deep, no outside influence can break it. With candid storytelling, practical strategies, and jaw-punching one-liners, Cass shares his journey from a failed relationship to a thriving marriage. No longer relying on hope, Cass offers faith in an actionable step x step for men everywhere. Within each step, he lays out propriety tools, created to move you rapidly. From the Foreword by his wife, Kathryn Morrow: "I thought he would never change. But with the turn of EVERY page of this book, you'll learn tricks, tools, and strategies to save even the worst marriages. Disrupting Divorce isn't just a book; it's a lifeline." Go Get Your Life. Read more

The obsession of a toxic or abusive relationship can have the same enticement as drugs or alcohol. The pattern echoes time and time again: a new significant other draws you into a new relationship that starts off loving and alluring, only to develop into a hurtful or abusive cycle.People who have a healthy understanding of “true love” do not tolerate this kind of pain. He or she will move on in search of a healthier bond. It’s an unhealthy view on love that will rationalize the toxic behavior and cling to abusive relationships long after they should have ended. Like any other addiction, those hooked on a toxic love and an emotionally abusive relationship; have no control over excessive urges to text, call, manipulate or beg for love, attention and affection. They want help. They want to end the pain and recover, but it’s just like trying to shake a drug habit.Ranked one of the top best seller abusive relationship books, Addicted to Pain reveals the truths every woman needs to heal from a toxic relationship and return to a life rich with purpose and fulfillment. Relationship expert Rainie Howard writes this all-in-one spiritual guide to provide daily insight on toxic love addiction and a healing plan to help you recover from the overwhelming effects of an abusive relationship.Learn how to get over a guy and heal from all abuse including:The verbally abusive relationshipEmotionally abusive relationshipSpiritual and physical abusive relationshipRainie has authored several books on relationships and is sought after as a conference speaker. If you’ve been seeking books for women and break-up books to help you gain restoration from a separation, abusive relationship, or divorce, this is the book for you! Read more

How will you find a way to make sure your child isn’t impacted by your narcissistic ex?Want to ensure that you take the right steps at a difficult time of transition?You’re someone who wants to make sure your child has the support, love and care they need to grow up and become a fully functional adult. You’re also someone acutely aware of the hold a narcissist can have over you. After all, you left your partner for a very good reason.Now that you’ve broken free there’s something that will have shocked you: they still have a hold over you! They’re still involved in your life in a big way because you have a child together. Now you have to co-parent in two different households and find a way to move forwards for the benefit of your child.The secret is to trust that there’s a solution, even when you feel like giving up all hope because of the completely unreasonable behavior of your ex. You just have to stay on track and keep doing the right thing. How do I know? I’ve just finished reading THE book on it…“Co-Parenting After Divorcing A Narcissist” is for anyone who wants to ensure their children are looked after the right way, no matter how nasty your divorce has been.Inside Co-Parenting After Divorcing A Narcissist, you're going to learn about:Why you're finding it hard to move onHow it's okay to grieve your divorceIf narcissistic abuse can cause PTSDChecking yourself for narcissistic victim syndromeHow to handle the gossip and disapproval of loved onesHow to disarm a narcissist and protect your kidsCoparenting with a narcissistPositive co-parentingWhen to use parallel parentingReinventing yourself and moving on And a whole lot more!Put all of these pieces of the puzzle into the right places and you’ll find that things start to improve a whole lot faster than you were expecting. Ideal if you want to make sure things run as smoothly as possible.Your copy is waiting! This is the moment you have to step forward, claim it, and read it. Do these three little things right now and everything will start to turn around. Read more

There are many books that promise to help you fix a bad relationship. This groundbreaking bestseller is the first one to help you choose whether you should even try—or if you need to go.Psychotherapist Mira Kirshenbaum draws on years of research and her work with real-life couples to help you make the right decision. She shows you how to diagnose your unique situation with self-analysis and questions like these, which get to the very heart of your problems:• What sins are forgivable and which ones are unpardonable?• Is your partner questioning your opinions to the point where you doubt yourself?• What is your sex life really like, and how important is it?• Is there real love left between you, and how does it stack up against all that you find unlovable?Mira Kirshenbaum provides expert guidelines that are the key to making all your choices, concrete steps that you can implement right now, and the ultimate way to determine your personal bottom line—what you need to be happy. This remarkably insightful and probing guide offers advice that lets you see the truth about your relationship—and with wisdom and compassion, it helps you act with the confidence of knowing that whether you decide to go or stay, you are doing the very best thing. Read more

MEN, THIS IS SIMPLE.If your relationship feels flat, contentious, or toxic, this book can help.If you want to feel more powerful and be less of a pleaser Nice Guy, this book can help you.If your partner seems to criticize more, have less interest in sex, or act in ways that feel “crazy” to you, this book can help.Fighting or defending yourself doesn’t resolve anything. Withdrawing into work or your phone makes it worse. And contorting yourself to avoid conflict just kills her respect for you.The answer is to develop and live from your Masculine core. This book shows you how in an actionable three-part Masculine Blueprint: Respond vs. React, Provide Structure, and Create Safety. This is not the old model based on control, but rather one based on clarity.This is not a manual for Alpha Dogs, nor a fuzzy spiritual guide. It is a clear set of principles that help you develop your Masculine leadership. In my experience, if you’re in any of these situations, your choice is simple. Either keep doing what you’re doing, and eventually watch the relationship die on the vine. Or grow. Period. This book shows you the way.And to go even deeper in this work, see The Art of Relational Masculinity video course, which takes these concepts even further. Read more

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This highly anticipated second edition of Splitting includes new chapters on abuse, alienation, and false allegations; as well as information about the four types of domestic violence, protective orders, and child custody disputes.Are you divorcing someone who’s making the process as difficult as possible? Are they sending you nasty emails, falsifying the truth, putting your children in the middle, abusing you, or abusing the system? Are they “persuasive blamers,” manipulating and fooling court personnel to get them on their side? If so, you need this book.For more than ten years, Splitting has served as the ultimate guide for people divorcing a high conflict person, one who often has borderline or narcissistic (or even antisocial) personality disorder. Among other things, it has saved readers thousands of dollars, helped them keep custody of their children, and effectively guided them through a difficult legal and emotional process.Written by a family law attorney and therapist, and the author of Stop Walking on Eggshells, Splitting is an essential legal and psychological guide for anyone divorcing a persuasive blamer: someone who suffers from borderline personality disorder (BPD), narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), and/or antisocial personality disorder (ASPD). This second edition includes new information about antisocial personalities; expanded information about domestic violence, child abuse, alienation, and false allegations; how to approach protective orders and deal with child custody disputes; and a new chapter on how to successfully present your case to decision makers.Turn to this guide to help you:Predict what your spouse may do or say in courtTake control of your case with assertiveness and strategic thinkingChoose a lawyer who understands your caseLearn how e-mails and social networking can be used against youIf you need help navigating a high-conflict divorce from a manipulative spouse, this book includes all of the critical information you need to work through the process of divorce in an emotionally balanced, productive way. Read more

Discover how to navigate a high-conflict divorce and transform your life, even if escaping your narcissistic ex seems impossible.Do you feel trapped in a toxic marriage with no way out? Are you overwhelmed by the thought of facing a manipulative narcissist in family court? Do you fear the personal and parental repercussions of leaving your abusive partner?If so, you are not alone. Many individuals like you are caught in the web of emotional and psychological abuse, wondering how to reclaim their lives and ensure a safe and stable environment for their children. The reality is arduous, but the solution is within your reach.Introducing "Divorcing a Narcissist," your comprehensive guide to navigating the treacherous waters of high-conflict divorce, succeeding in family court, and emerging stronger than ever.Inside, you will learn:How to prepare and execute a strategic exit from a manipulative partner.Crucial steps to protect yourself and your children in family court.How to gather and document compelling evidence of abuse and manipulation.Step-by-step instructions for documenting interactions and setting firm boundaries.How to recognize Narcissistic Personality Disorder and identify red flags.How to create a bulletproof safety plan to protect against possible retaliation.The secret to recovering from emotional abuse and reclaiming your self-worth....and so much more!The knowledge and support within this book are designed to empower you through every stage of the divorce process.If you're feeling emotionally depleted, financially strained, trapped in a life you do not want, scared to stay or leave, and overwhelmed by the complexity of it all, this guide offers the advice you need. This book is designed to educate you, support you, and prepare you for legal battle, all in easy-to-understand, practical steps that will help you find a safer, healthier future.Ready to turn the page and start a new chapter of your life? Scroll up and click the "Add to Cart" button now! Read more